The presence of packets with FIN, PUSH, and URG flags activated in network traffic, as observed through Wireshark, is indicative of a XMAS scan. This type of scan is used by attackers to identify open ports and services available on a networked computer. The peculiar combination of these TCP flags is not used in normal, everyday communications and is easily picked up by intrusion detection systems as anomalous. The XMAS scan derives its name from the fact that the packet lights up like a Christmas tree with several flags set, which is an unusual and conspicuous event in network traffic.

A honey pot is a device specifically designed to emulate a high value target such as a database server or entire sub section of your network. It is designed to attract the hacker's attention.

An Intrusion Detection System (IDS) is designed to monitor network or system activities for malicious actions or policy violations. The correct order of activities that an IDS follows to detect an intrusion starts with Intrusion Monitoring, where it observes the network traffic or system events. Following this, Intrusion Detection takes place, where the IDS analyzes the monitored data to identify potential security breaches. Once a potential intrusion is detected, the Response mechanism is activated to address the intrusion, which may include alerts or automatic countermeasures. Finally, Prevention is applied to improve the system's defenses against future intrusions based on the detected patterns and responses.
References: This explanation is based on the standard operational procedure of IDS as per the Network Defender (CND) objectives and documents1.